Thursday, March 25, 2021

How to be a right Ambitious?

Ambition_ the hope of Personal Desire


A person who is ambitious to achieve something obviously makes a planner and wishes to take that in hand. But how can we know that the selected desire will be achieved or not? What is the purpose? And why will we be selected for that? Will it be beneficial or not? We are ambitious, it's fine enough but do we deserve to have that? 

Life is a road that starts and ends even, has many other directions and we have to know that direction that is approachable for our destination. So, is the ambition in direction? We just desire our ambition  and achieve that. But where is the determination? Are we fit for that? Standing alone does not decide who you are but standing in the crowd does. Being a good personality is good, that is a personal image of self but impactful on others. Having an identity is not easy, that is the image of a person in a specific crowd. 

Have we focused on both? No, personality requires small changes all the time and the identity based on it. Do we exist in one of both? Obviously not because our desire for achieving ambition does not make that sense to know the actual worth of self and the abilities we have. 



We never focus on what we have but we are focused on what we want to have and our ambition demands that focus. No doubt passion to get something makes everything blurry except than our target point. But if our target is not selected for the right place, then?

Target your place
The whole process revolves around the specialty we have. Many of us are successful in life because what they wanted to be now they are but they are not satisfied. Just because of wrong selection of their choice. Trend matters but when that is suitable for us. Many of us are more on the way where others go but do not remember that way where we are going is right or wrong. Everyone is able to do anything but what is the ability to do? Just focus on the point, that is ability. 

A Right Ambition

Everything is possible
If you are ambitious
You might be a good player
If your energy is pure and clear
Your power decides your destination
Sometimes that's just in your imagination
You surely can cross the thorny road
If you have faith in your Lord
Not even compulsory to be first
But be yourself first without any thirst
There's nothing remained same
But except than only your own name
Success isn't to achieve all the time fame
But moving slowly upward without any shame
Then compare your own version
From old to new that's the only best conversion
Don't hesitate to be failure
History declares about such travailleur
Stop to chase someone who's brave
You have to go in your own grave
Stay focused towards the right place
That's the best for your own self glace 
Mariyam Munir

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Ability and Ambition are equally important if we have a third one that is Acceptance of self worth, this combination makes you Zealous.

A right ambition will must be in your hand, if you are really focused to explore your ability.



 

Tuesday, March 23, 2021

What is Fear?

                             

What makes us frightened?

Lack of self confidence always makes us frightened and we feel fear for having no power to compete, to bear or to control the whole scenario.

Fear negates self trust, when we have it for environmental impacts. Many of us have such fears like: Fear of failure, fear of losing our beloveds, some have fear of parents, siblings and family, fear of unpredictable circumstances, fear of death but fear of society is still dominated.


Self Trust leads to Success 

“Do one thing every day that scares you”
 Eleanor Roosevelt

Instead of taking step back, do what you want to do.
One more, that is fear of God. Right? Why do we have this one? But why? Because our conscience is not truly alive. We have no proper knowledge to differentiate between right and wrong. Lord never makes us frightened because He gave us proper and clear ways even for each smallest thing.

The problem is not around us but it is in ourselves. All these fears are nothing. Useless these fears only make you unstable. These all cause mental sickness and create an obstacle for moving forward. If we feel fear from others what will happen? Nothing, when we want to do something definitely we want nobody around us. Like, our actions, our deeds which are not acceptable for others but we must want to do. 

We want space, we want to be alone for a while just for fulfilling our desires. But we do, sooner or later, our desire is fulfilled, even if we have fear of others but we don't have fear of our own self. If you like something or someone, you really want to keep it near to you all the time. But when we don't find a way according to our desire, we feel angry. That's the result of being a failure. 

Fate matters but will power comes first when the mind is fully absorbed into targeting the situation.

Did we ever think about fear of conscience? Do we have fear of self?

Obviously not, because we have lost our worth by thinking what will people say?

Power of Conscience 

If we want to feel fear then we must feel it from ourselves. It will make us more stable, it will be like a most helpful companion. When we have fear of self we cannot do anything wrong. Our loneliness, our presence in public, nothing matters. Just our inner voice will make us able to survive in ourselves. If your conscience is satisfying to be a part of your actions, you have no need to be afraid. We just have to keep our conscience alive, throughout the life.


Close all the fears in a pot and make a circle of self fear around you, you'll be successful to make yourself successful.



Darkness

This darkness is not horrible for me
But the extract of my whole day
I spent, each moment in hopeful ray
Night is the fight, between depth of dark and light
But I found myself running towards the best flight
It may be an evil sight of blank site
Looking the way right to make me right
Standing alone at the edge
Where the next step is shining day
Peace remains no more in this hustle and bustle
In the day light even in the park
Light is no light but becomes dark
Where everyone never look around
Except than personal ground
Having sight without vision
Is like senses without division
As like the cluster of mud
And same like the growth less bud
Happy to stay in dark night
Calm, humble and satisfied insight
Fearless me having a fear of self
No need to be afraid from something else
-Mariyam Munir


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